Wedding Day Hairpiece Delima

I have wanted to wear some form of a tiara in my wedding for as long as I can remember. I don't know if it is because I always wanted to be a Disney Princess, or if it is just because I really like shiny things. Currently I have a little comb tiara that I picked up for a great price that I really like. Here is my man so graciously modeling it for me:


When I went wedding dress shopping my bridal consultant did my hair and put a veil on me so that I would get the total package feel with my dress on. Along with the veil she clipped in some little flowers. I never in a million years thought that I would like the flowers in my hair, but I do. Here is me where you can see the flowers:

So now I am torn. Do I wear the tiara that I have always wanted to wear or just switch to the flowers because they are so pretty. I like both options and so here I sit, torn. I know I have several months to decide this, heck I could just decide the day of the wedding, but I may go crazy over this issue by then.

So what do you think people, keep the tiara or try the flowers? Have any of you had a similar issue? What did you decide?